About me as a co-worker
Working with me
Flexible with Feedback - I welcome feedback. You can expect that I ask for multiple examples and suggestions to improve. To help me prepare, let me know feedback is coming by adding it to an agenda or bringing it up in a regular cadence. If you want feedback from me, giving me time to prepare ensures it will be thoughtful and constructive. When you ask me for feedback, please share with me your goals and what areas you welcome feedback.
Introverted with a Need for Focus - While I enjoy connecting with others, I am an introvert at heart. I do my best work after time for independent reflection. I block out large chunks of my calendar for focus time and prefer agendas for meetings whenever possible.
Calendar-Driven - I live by my calendar—if there’s open time, feel free to schedule something without asking. However, if it’s a day of meeting, I prefer you ask me before scheduling. I prefer knowing about meetings a day in advance to plan effectively. I may message you outside of hours if inspiration strikes, but I don’t expect responses. Similarly, I have very effective notification boundaries in my life - you can message me whenever you want!
Team Collaboration - I see “team” as a broad concept, extending to design, Go-to-Market, engineering partners and beyond. Our collective success is rooted in understanding and supporting one another’s work styles and goals. I do not like politics and will not stand for them. I’m happy to be a sounding board for relational nuances, but strongly believe we are all in this together, so expect me to focus much more on problem-solving after letting you vent.
Autonomy and Flexibility - I trust you to manage your time effectively. As long as you are meeting your commitments and not negatively impacting the team, I fully support taking mid-day breaks, vacations, or any adjustments that help you do your best work. In fact, I usually have to take a walk or go into the garden in order to effectively focus on a big project.
I like to celebrate wins - My biggest strength from Strengthsfinder is Competition. This means that I like to compete and win. I also have a strength in relationships, so being competitive shows up as a strong desire to win as a team. When we win as a team, I like to also celebrate as a team. And I get the most joy when it’s publicly and together.
Communication & How I Think
Online hours: 8am-4/5pm. I do take breaks during the day to prepare and rest my mind, but I will be available within 2 hours.
Very calendar-driven: I am motivated by dates and deadlines. So, if you need me to work on something or review something, please put a meeting on my calendar. Similarly, if you see that I have “review time” on my calendar, please respect it because it’s a forcing function for me to get something done ;)
Getting a hold of me: I check Slack all day long, and I check email 2x a day. If you need me urgently, put a meeting on my calendar to “respond to ___”, and this can conflict with a meeting I have if necessary.
With Slack, I’ll try to respond within 2 working hours. I have horrible ADD, so I silence notifications when I’m in a meeting or have blocked focus time.
Communication nuances:
I say things more confidently than I mean them. My style is to say things confidently, but I have learned over time that it can send teams in the wrong direction. So, I have a paradigm I use:
Strong No = I care, I will argue my position and strongly believe I am right. I worry that the other side is “wrong”. Be prepared to represent your position.
Soft No = I don’t really care, but my opinion is No. Feel free to go around my opinion or ask why I feel that way.
Soft Yes = I don’t really care, but my opinion is Yes. Feel free to go around my opinion or ask why I feel that way, but I won’t be intense about it.
Strong Yes = I care, I will argue my position and strongly believe I am right. I worry the other side is “wrong”. Be prepared to represent your position.
I respect strong decision-making techniques, like the DACI model. I like it when decisions are pushed as locally as possible. I respect it when there is a positive escalation culture. I would rather you make a decision and escalate it than have us talk about it a lot.
I respect it when you own your failures. Failures and mistakes happen! To me, it’s more about what you do when that happens. I like the framework: “[This] happened. [This] is what we are going to do by [when] to fix it. And you can help by getting us [Jenica action items].”
Please wait until I tell you I’m done reviewing a document to read my comments. When you ask me to review a document, I like to comment as I read and sometimes my comments are more notes to myself. Then, I go back and review the entire thing to give you a robust commentary. There are lots of times when I resolve comments I made in the beginning or revise them. So, I ask you wait until I tell you I am finished; and thank you!